#63 Hey Bro, Sorry I Punched You

June 25, 2012 — 8 Comments

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This is the story of the day I died.

This is the story of the day my friend punched me in the chest. Twice.

A few years ago, after graduating from Bible college, my buddy helped me get an internship at my current church in Oceanside, where I lived in a small room in the back of the church and did the work held with the highest honor in the church, including vacuuming the floors and preparing the Sunday morning snacks (I’m not knocking it, it was possibly the most important learning experience in my life).

That Summer, the pastor had a pool party at his place for some holiday or other, which meant that all the young dudes at the church played a little game we liked to call “animal ball”.

Animal ball, is the gentlemanly sport by which one team tries to get a ball to the other end of the pool by show of force, holding the ball at the edge of the pool for five seconds and it is awesome.

There’s dunking (of heads), pushing (of bodies) and pantsing (of shorts, not generally on purpose).

I had my attention on the other end of the pool when all of a sudden I felt it.

A punch straight to the chest.

Followed by another punch to the chest.

I turn to look to see that my friend, who weighed a hundred pounds less than me, had straight up double punched me like it was a game of Street Fighter.

“Why’d you punch me?” I yelled.

“You were choking me” he yelled back.

I don’t remember that part. I believe him, now, I guess, but I don’t remember it and I wasn’t doing it on purpose.

We haven’t talked about it since, but there was this stirring text conversation that we had a few hours later.

“Hey bro, sorry I punched you.”

“No worries.”

That was it. Friendship restored.

Dudes are like that sometimes. We don’t always need eight hour long talks to get through things.

If we realize we’re stupid, we say it, make up and move on.

Why do we think that God needs some long winded manifesto for Him to forgive us?

And when you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the heathen [do]. For they think that they will be heard for their many words.

Matthew 6: 7 (NKJV)

 

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

1st John 1: 9 (NKJV)

If there is something holding you back from a restored relationship with God, just tell Him what’s up, that you admit you are wrong, that you are repenting from it and He’ll forgive you.

It’s that easy.

Do you take too long to confess your sins so that you can move on with your relationship with God?

Tyler Hess

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Tyler Hess runs Undistracted Christian and he lives in Vista, California with his wife Beth and daughter Ellie.
  • http://www.ibukunakinnawo.wordpress.com Ibukun Akinnawo

    I love this post! As well as your other Distractions! :) I’m afraid the rule doesn’t apply to us women folk: we fight today and twenty years later we still aren’t talking! LOL great job, Tyler!

    • http://www.undistractedchristian.com Tyler Hess

      well…time to change that!

  • http://www.lifeofasteward.com Loren Pinilis

    That’s a humorous perspective on the forgiveness of Christ. As a guy, I can totally relate :)
    It’s nice to know that forgiveness is ours in great supply if we just ask.

    • http://www.undistractedchristian.com Tyler Hess

      good thing, i have a lot of demand for it, glad supply matches!

  • http://danblackonleadership.com Dan Black

    When I sin or make a mistake, I repent and move forward in my relationship with God. I know God has forgiven me and their is no reason to dwell on it. Great post and reminder.

    • http://www.undistractedchristian.com Tyler Hess

      good! not everyone realizes they can do just that!

  • http://www.lincolnparks.com Lincoln Parks

    Reminds me of when I was younger and Church lasted for 3 hours. I would always ask myself and God. God, can you tell me if we need to be in here for 3hrs really?

    I think I got the answer to my question. As long as he is first in all we do, it does not matter how long or short. I think once in the right environment for you, who cares how long or short. In other words, I had to learn how to speak to God. I’m still learning but its definitely not long winded. I’m straight to the point with him.

    • http://www.undistractedchristian.com Tyler Hess

      Truth be told…I still have trouble sitting through 3 hours…or even 1 or 2 hours…but it’s easier when I have the right heart/attitude…which is a lot easier to have if I’m right w/ God…which is easier to be if I’m straight with Him!